{"id":738,"date":"2004-07-10T09:23:00","date_gmt":"2004-07-10T17:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/2014.willolovesyou.com\/wp\/dev\/?p=738"},"modified":"2004-07-10T09:23:00","modified_gmt":"2004-07-10T17:23:00","slug":"saturday-blabbing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/2014.willolovesyou.com\/wp\/2004\/07\/saturday-blabbing\/","title":{"rendered":"saturday blabbing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Lastnight I picked up <a href=\"http:\/\/www.smokeandashes.net\/\">Sarah<\/a> and we met Lisa at <a href=\"http:\/\/willotoons.fotki.com\/aimees_visit_2\/dscn5976.html\">Lucky 13<\/a> for a drink before the show: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.giantsand.com\/mward\">M. Ward<\/a> w\/ <a href=\"http:\/\/www.forstarsmusic.com\/\">For Stars<\/a> at Cafe Du Nord&#8217;s Swedish Hall (the upstairs venue). <\/p>\n<p>At Lucky 13, I ran into <a href=\"http:\/\/nobhillbilly.blogspot.com\/\">Brendan<\/a> &#038; <a href=\"http:\/\/internalizer.blogspot.com\/\">Ewa<\/a> who said <a href=\"http:\/\/www.skinnymusic.com\/\">Michelle<\/a> was on her way to meet them too&#8230; I wanted to run into them again later in the show so I could see Michelle, but I didn&#8217;t unfortunately. I am glad she went though, as I thought of her when I saw he was playing &#8211;  I think she might have been who told me about him initially. <\/p>\n<p>I was going to ask her along, but the last few times I&#8217;ve asked her to do anything she has declined (even for my bday!) Sadly her &#038; I don&#8217;t talk very much anymore. I&#8217;m not sure why, but I feel like I&#8217;ve tried to have us keep and touch and she&#8217;s not into it or something. I&#8217;m trying to not take it personally, but I&#8217;m pretty bummed about it. I feel like she doesn&#8217;t like me anymore &#8211; silly maybe, as the reality very well may be that sometimes people and lives change and you just can&#8217;t force it. Who knows, but it&#8217;s always sad to see a friendship drift apart.<\/p>\n<p>I asked Sarah who she&#8217;d been hanging out with recently and when she asked me back I realized I really only hang out with Rick for the most part. I mean &#8211; I&#8217;m a bit of a hermit really&#8230; so I work, work, work, and then when I do leave the house it&#8217;s usually for a show &#8211; which always includes my #1 music buddy, Rick &#8211; but then also quite often includes my top tier music buddys: Jem, Tania and Rebecca. And then Rick &#038; I will hang out with his peeps sometimes, or I&#8217;ll see my brother or the Jee\/Lyne crew here &#038; there. But other than that it&#8217;s mostly Ricky G. Which is great, cuz guess what? I&#8217;m so head over heals in love that I enjoy every little second I&#8217;m with him and can hardly stand being apart!! :) It&#8217;s amazing.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway &#8211; so I think I&#8217;m a little picky when it comes to who I hang out with &#8211; and I hardly have time to hang out with people, so when I do, it&#8217;s for a show or dinner or a movie &#8211; and all of those things I love doing with my sweetie. However, I love getting together with other friends and I probably don&#8217;t do it enough. I keep meaning to have a girls brunch at my place, or cocktails on the porch at sunset, but don&#8217;t get around to it. <\/p>\n<p>Anyway &#8211; I&#8217;m just blabbing. I feel like I haven&#8217;t used my blog as a total journal entry in awhile so here it all is :) Even though I have a long list of things to do today and it&#8217;s already 1pm! aK! I&#8217;ll just write a little more&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>:::::::<\/p>\n<p>Skipping back to Thursday, I had a really fun day. First of all, I stayed at Rick&#8217;s because he actually left Thursday night to go to LA for the weekend and party with his friends. He was cute about it cuz he didn&#8217;t want me to feel left out by him just wanting a weekend with the boys, but I say go for it &#038; have a great time! I&#8217;ll miss him but I&#8217;ll just be that much more psyched to see him when he gets back :) And I think it&#8217;s WAY important for couples to do things separately like that, so you won&#8217;t ever see me be the kind of girlfriend that won&#8217;t support it, as I certainly wouldn&#8217;t want him to not support me taking a weekend away! See ya! <\/p>\n<p>Ok, so I stayed at Ricks &#8211; Oh &#038; the night before, we&#8217;d gone for a yummy slice &#038; salad at ZA&#8217;s up on Hyde. Good stuff &#038; they even added  mushrooms &#038; olives on my pepperoni slice (my favorite combo), even though they don&#8217;t do that with their premade slices, so I was stoked. :) <\/p>\n<p>So Thursday, I started the morning sitting in bed working on a few things. Love the laptop for working in bed! Then I headed out to my drum lesson. <\/p>\n<p>::::::<\/p>\n<p>Did you know I&#8217;m taking drum lessons? Cool, huh!? Ya, I&#8217;m stoked. I think I&#8217;ve probably had 4 now, and my teacher is awesome &#8211; and I&#8217;m already learning and progressing a little &#8211; yay!!! We&#8217;ve started me out with the total basics, cuz I need them! First just how to hold the sticks so my hands don&#8217;t get fatigued, etc &#8211; and then we dove into teaching me how to read music and the basic quarter, eighth &#038; sixteenth notes. I&#8217;ve never really played any instrument, so I&#8217;m starting at serious 101. But I&#8217;m getting it! I&#8217;m really enjoying trying to teach my hands to work autonomously and hearing the beats and getting the rhythm down. <\/p>\n<p>The best is when Warren lets me loose on the drum kit &#8211; and even though I look &#038; sound like a total retard, I&#8217;m confident someday I won&#8217;t even know HOW to sound retarded I&#8217;ll just rock out so hard!!! :) But for now I&#8217;m like a 6 year old <em>trying<\/em> to sound like I&#8217;m rockin it &#038; meanwhile it&#8217;s pretty tragic sounding. ha! But it&#8217;s sooo fun.<\/p>\n<p>I have SUCH a passion for the drums that sitting there practicing and playing around I&#8217;m smiling from ear to ear with butterflies in my stomach, stoked! I&#8217;m practicing at home with my sticks &#038; practice pad and have lessons every week. I&#8217;m stoked to have Warren as my teacher too. I was really wanting to find a teacher who I felt comfortable around and who I could relate to &#8211; and he&#8217;s awesome. Really sweet and patient and funny. Thanks for connecting us, Robin!<\/p>\n<p>:::::<\/p>\n<p>So after my drum lesson, I went &#038; met <a href=\"http:\/\/lostworld.pair.com\/blog\/\">Jeff<\/a> of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dcresource.com\/\">DCResource<\/a> at the Casablanca Cafe on Polk St. I&#8217;d eaten there a couple times a long time ago, but now it&#8217;s gotten a lot more Mediterranean flair with the wood tables and a hooka on every one! I ordered a chicken shwarma and asked for 2 dolmas and surprisingly they put it IN the shwarma! It was DELICIOUS!!! <\/p>\n<p>Jeff &#038; I met there cuz it&#8217;s also an internet cafe, and not only do they have the pay Surf-n-Sip, but there&#8217;s free wi-fi networks you can jump on, too. It was good to rap w\/ Jeff and see him again. We&#8217;re trying to get the last few things ironed out for the DCResource site. Jeff hired me for a full re-design last year, but it hasn&#8217;t gone live yet. Jeff has been doing all the production on it in between being very busy, so it&#8217;s just been taking awhile. Understandably, because there&#8217;s years of database and images to transfer over.. but we&#8217;re almost there!! I&#8217;m so excited to show it off when it goes live!<\/p>\n<p>Speaking of, I have TONS of stuff to update my portfolio with. It&#8217;s crazy but the other day I wrote it out &#038; there&#8217;s a good 10 or so Web and Flash sites I&#8217;ve worked on that aren&#8217;t even in there. oy!<\/p>\n<p>:::::::<\/p>\n<p>After lunch w\/ Jeff, I headed over to take my lovely friend Bee out to get her nails done. She can&#8217;t cut them herself anymore, so they were long and she was glad to have someone take the time to take her to get it done. I hadn&#8217;t seen her since before her stroke, which she had only months after her bout with pneumonia. Sadly, just from being in the hospital, she&#8217;s gotten really weak and frail, and the stroke has just made it even a little worse. :( It&#8217;s wild to see such a dramatic shift in her health, in just 9 months&#8230; She was always so spry and got around this city on her own, carrying groceries and keeping busy with no problems up until that first hospitilization. <\/p>\n<p>Her son is helping her a lot which makes me so happy to hear. And I call her here &#038; there to check up on her. I&#8217;ve known her for almost 8 years now! We get along great&#8230; and I joke with her, things like when we&#8217;re walking (which because she&#8217;s walking with a cane and is so frail, is a snails pace) that we&#8217;re gonna get a speeding ticket if we&#8217;re not careful. :) <\/p>\n<p>We went out for ice cream after we got her nails done &#038; I was able to show her photos on my laptop of my house and the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.willolovesyou.com\/fun\/treeplant.html#top\">ever growing tree plant<\/a> that she gave me back when I lived with her! Which, by the way, has 3! new sprouts that shot up like FIREWORKS over 4th of July weekend! I was going to cut it so that it started a shoot somewhere lower on the trunk, but I can&#8217;t bear to cut off the top of the beautiful new sprouts!<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, Bee&#8217;s a wonderful lady and I think she&#8217;s doing her best to keep her spirits about her condition. I really enjoy being around her and I&#8217;m gonna try to make a monthly date with her, either to get our nails done together &#8211; or take her to a movie or something. <\/p>\n<p>:::::<\/p>\n<p>Finally I made it back home and worked all Thursday night and Friday till I took off for the show.<\/p>\n<p>The opener was a guy named <a href=\"http:\/\/www.etiennederocher.com\/\">Etienne De Rocher<\/a>. He had a great voice and really pretty songs. For Stars came on next, who Lisa loves and recommended I check out. They were good, but didn&#8217;t bowl me over or anything. However I think I&#8217;d enjoy their CD. Seeing them live I was more preoccupied with the hilarious hand gestures the lead singer Carlos was doing as he sang. And Sarah, Jem, Tania and I all agreed he reminded us of a gay Will Farrell. His flowered shirt probably wasn&#8217;t helping this association.<\/p>\n<p>M. Ward was great! I wished Rick could have been there to watch the man do his magic on the guitar! He was excellent &#8211; and I love his voice. I&#8217;m glad I went! After that Sarah &#038; I took off for another beer at Lucky 13 and then called it a night. It was good to hang with her and catch up. <\/p>\n<p>:::::<\/p>\n<p>This weekend my friends <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tastingsrestaurant.com\/\">Sandy &#038; Derek<\/a> are in town (they moved to Maui!), so I&#8217;m stoked to see them. Tonite we&#8217;re going to a dinner party at her friend <a href=\"http:\/\/www.griswak.net\">Ken&#8217;s<\/a> house in the East Bay. I&#8217;m looking forward to meeting him finally and having some yummy wine &#038; food!<\/p>\n<p>Ok, that&#8217;s my blabberific post for ya :) Have a good day!<br \/>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lastnight I picked up Sarah and we met Lisa at Lucky 13 for a drink before the show: M. Ward w\/ For Stars at Cafe Du Nord&#8217;s Swedish Hall (the upstairs venue). 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