events list update…. sorta…

Ok, I’ve posted my progress on the events listing thus far – but I’m far from being finished. I need to streamline the way I do this – maybe by just putting it on the yahoo calendar or something – I just wish Yahoo calendar let me do links to the venues!

Anyway – I’ll try to finish the list up soon and link some of those that aren’t linked etc. I still have a good 5 venues and lists to pull from, so there’s more out there!!

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I woulda liked to have tried to hit that Gogol Bordelo/Full Moon Partisans show Friday night – my friend went & said it was amazing. And lastnight I would have liked to hit either the Fojimoto show or the French Kicks show with openers On The Speakers (cuz I love them) and The Joggers (but I woulda left before French Kicks, I’m not a fan of his live performance, but I like their CDs).

Tonite I would hit BrightBlack & Joanna Newsom, but my Jemmy friend is coming over to swap some music. Hmm, maybe I can talk her into going over there.

Then I dig Yellow Press, so I could go check them out on Wed night or Elf Power is playing that night too.

Then this weekend is Sleater Kinney on Saturday night! woohoo! Except there’s like 3 great shows goin on Sat night – I’d love to go see Richard Buckner & Haley Bonar too. But Sleater Kinney will be sweet… my first time seeing them if you can believe it! I’m psyched.

Ok, I’ll try to finish up that list soon – as I am afraid I’ll miss good shows if I don’t – and we can’t have that! :)

Happy Monday!

weeeeeeeeeeeekend

Friday night Rick & I enjoyed a lovely evening over at Sarah and Mat’s for dinner. Mat cooked us up a gourmet meal: Linguine with a rich, creamy avocado sauce with shrimp – soo yummy! Mat’s girlfriend Paula was there and Helena & Derek, too. Many bottles of wine were consumed! :)

It was really nice to see Sarah again. With her traveling so much lately, and my being so darn busy all the time, we’ve not seen eachother enough! And it was great catching up with Mat, too… he’s a big music head like me and was the one who turned me onto TV On The Radio, and schooled me on older bands like Polvo and much more. Him and a buddy went to GWAR show recently and had some hilarious photos of themselves drenched in the “blood”… he still had the tshirt hanging in the bathroom, which apparently had started out white, but looked like a messed up tiedye job. WILD!

By the end of the evening, the topic of Blue Crush came up. Rick & Sarah both surf and I’d never seen that movie but heard about it through them, so I told Sarah I wanted to borrow it. Sarah thought to put it on in the background while we all hung out after dinner, but in our wine induced haze we all got sucked in & before we knew it we stayed up to watch the rest. ha! I was glad to finally see it – it made me wanna surf! But I’m a baby, and I’d prefer to wait till the bathwater comfort of Maui or something, but I have a feeling between Jee, Rick, Sarah and my brother I’ll be out hittin the waves this summer before I know it. :)

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Saturday morning my awesome tech buddy Tack came over & fixed up my wireless. It’s been all kinds of screwy lately – but he’s the mastah and even though it’s not set up the same as it was, it’s working now and I’m thankful for that! PLUS I am PSYCHED cuz he helped me get all secure with SSH for my outgoing email. woohoo!! I’m very concerned with security and I am thankful that I can now safely hit an internet cafe & not worry about my password being out in the open!

It’s amazing to me how many users aren’t protected – and it’s even crazier that there’s really no plug & play solution for wireless security. You pretty much have to have a smarty techy set up the tunnel on your local machine. I mean, I’m pretty advanced and it was even daunting for me – let alone someone who only uses their computer for Word or something! Anyway, now I’m safe – and if you’re on a laptop, I recommend you get safe too! Use SSL for your email if you can – and SSH for outgoing and SFTP! I’m sure I could be locked down even more, but this better than what I had set up before. I’m glad I have his mad tech skillzz around! If you’re in San Francisco and are looking for someone, he’s for hire on an hourly basis. Email or leave a comment if you want his info.

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Friday I’d gotten a call from an ex-boyfriend who said he was driving through town Saturday (he lives in Santa Rosa), so right after Tack left I had to hurry and get ready for lunch with Dan. It was great to see him… We dated about 8 years ago, right after I moved to SF – way back in 96/97! But now he’s married with a baby and another one on the way, so we see eachother maybe every 2.5 years.

We had yummy burritos at Papalote and caught up. I had one of those embarrassing wrong tube/choke my ass off moments that was delightful, but other than that it all went well :) He’s playin the drums, too, so it was cool to rap w/ him about that.

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Saturday night Rick had bought us tickets to the Cracker/Camper Van Beethoven show at the Warfield, so after a few hours of getting some things done around here I met up with Rick to hit Rebecca’s BBQ before the show. I was psyched to see Jee, Rebecca, Jim, Scott & that whole crew. Especially Jee – it’s been forever!

So we hung out, had some yummy food and then left to get to our show. We dropped off my car here to avoid parking/driving – each did a shot of chilled jäger and then grabbed a beer to drink while we sat out front waiting for our taxi. Aww yaa, let the evening begin!!

When we arrived Cracker was playing and had already been playing for an hour! CRAP! They hadn’t listed the lineup very well, but they had this horrible comedian on the bill & we thought for sure he’d open up. But come to think of it, since both bands share most of the same members, it was their way of giving themselves a break in between. Rick was bummed, as he’s way more into Cracker than CVB, so that was too bad. The comedian was so bad I won’t even name him. My feelings were just that we were there to see music, not just hear a comedian go off about how sucky Bush is. WE KNOW! Now play some more music dammit!

Camper Van was just ok – I’m not so into this type of music anymore, although I can appreciate their skills. It was pretty jam bandish by the end – and by looking at the 80% male audience, I’m sure most of them love these bands cuz of the guitar. But full of beer and my honey by my side, I made the best of it.

Eric & his girlfriend Claudia were with us, too, and we all left before the show ended. We decided to hit Anu, a bar just around the corner on 6th St (aka crack central). It’s a sketchy street, but the clubs around there can be fun.

Rick & I had actually been to Anu waaay back (in the just friends stage) after we’d gone to Popscene for a Stills show & then tried to catch an art show over there that closed early. So we hit Anu since we were already over there. We had a great time that night and after I dropped him off, I remember thinking that I felt attracted to him, but I brushed it off not wanting to make something of nothing. Lastnight Rick admitted he kicked himself for not kissing me that night. ha :) so cute.

Anyway, it’s a cool bar with great DJ’s – so we went there, ordered drinkies and even ran into Darren! woohoo!! Darren actually had spotted me first apparently, but didn’t want to “interrupt” us. Sorry, we’re guilty: We can’t keep our hands off eachother! But it was fun to see him and then we even had our friends Guam & Dave show up, too. PARTAAY!

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Today, as you may have guessed, was all about sleeping in. Aaaah, SLEEP!! Aaaah, SUNDAYS!

We didn’t feel like hitting Bay to Breakers (Sorry Brian and DJ Shooey! I’m sure you all had a blast!!). My weekend was crazy busy already and I started realizing I’m going to run out of time if I don’t get a head start on my week. My Mom is coming into town in a couple days, so I’m on a serious deadline to get everything ready for her arrival, let alone my work/client deadlines!

So today was pretty productive for that. I’ve cleaned up my place a ton and reorganized some things, but still have a more to do! I was thinking she was flying in Wednesday or Thursday and I was stressing about all the work I need to do, but tonite I realized it’s Friday afternoon, which is perfect. I’m looking forward to seeing her and showing her my place!

how we met

I’ve been meaning to write this down for a long time. Those of you who know me have heard the story, but there’s a lot of you who don’t! So here it is… The story of how Rick & I met:

Last September I went to a ROCKIN show (In the Top 3 of my favorite shows in 2003!) Super Furry Animals/Grandaddy (my review) and when I got home, I got an IM from my friend Jee saying “this sounds like you…” and a link.

It was a link to a Craigslist post where this guy was going off about how his friends never want to go see live shows with him, or they always have some excuse about needing to save money, or clean the house, or just give him the “who’s that?” and don’t want to go cuz they’ve never heard of them. And just as Jee had said, that totally sounded just like me because I was always complaining I didn’t have enough people to go to shows with!

Oh & actually his post was really him selling extra tickets to 3 shows he’d bought 4 tickets each, thinking of course his friends wouldn’t want to miss these kick ass shows (The Kills, Yeah Yeah Yeahs and Hot Hot Heat), and was having to find buyers for them now that he realized nobody would rally and go. But all I saw was a guy who liked the same awesome bands as me, and also didn’t have peeps to go to shows with – So I emailed him!!

MUSIC FANS UNITE!

So he wrote me back and I wrote him back and then we decided to meet up for what I called a “Freak Check” just to make sure he’s even somebody I want to be standing next to for 2 hours at a show! :)

Now, mind you I was not looking for a boyfriend or a date or ANYTHING at the time. Matt & I had just split in May and although I had sorta been toying with the idea of flirting with boys, I really didn’t want a boyfriend or anything like that! So I was out purely for the concert buddy opportunity.

We met up on a hot September day and had iced coffees during the Polk St Festival. We chatted for about an hour about bands and shows and such. Nice day, nice talk, nice guy. Cool.

At the end I thought, he’s cute, but he’s not my type anyway. He doesn’t meet the “height requirement” (which was the big joke between the Six Girls last summer – I’m 5’10”, so I guess I was trying to go for someone who was atleast 6’… which is silly I know, but this only came of me becoming single again & realizing how many men are too short for me! talk about cutting my options in 1/2!). I should note here, however, that Rick is 5’11”! haha

So I wasn’t looking – and just thought as far as dating goes he was cool, cute, he surfs, has a good job and is funny AND has great taste in music – “He’ll be perfect for one of my friends!”

So, shortly after we went to our first show: Hot, Hot Heat – who was one of my favorite bands of last year, top 3! And I was aaall fired up. AND that night I met Jem for the first time through Kristin! Awesome!

Rick & I started hitting about 3 shows a week – as you can see from the list (look at October 2003 on, my show going picked up something fierce!) and we quickly realized we both loved to party & loved live shows. woohoo!!

We talked all the time on IM and email, and because we were going to so many shows, I was seeing him more than any of my other friends!

About 3 weeks into it at the Rogue Wave/Thermals/Mates of State show, Rick landed a kiss on me. And the rest is history… :)

As you all know it took me a long time to stop calling us “just friends”, but now there’s no denying he’s officially boyfriend status.

I could list out a gazillion things he does to make me so happy. We’ve had so many great times together and it just makes me look forward to many more. :)

Funny how it all started with Jee IM’ing me some guy’s Craigslist post, huh? Thank you Jee! Thank you Craigslist!

And to Ricky G. = mmmmoooooiiii xoxoxo

Distillers

We first had ourselves some long overdue & tasty Goat Hill Pizza. My favorite pizza in town (or atleast top 3, I don’t frequent enough pizza joints!) and ironically I don’t think I’ve even been there since I took Rick there way back last October, when we were just “friends”. Anyway, it was super yummy – and the dinner salads there are to die for.. garbanzo & kidney beans, a big fat pepperocini, olives and the best blue cheese dressing you’ll ever have!

We finally arrived at The Fillmore for the show (which I scored us free tix too – woohoo! and they even stoked us with drink tickets! aww yaa!), got a drink & ran into our show buddies Jem & Tania. The 2nd band was just finishing up, but from what I heard I would definitely go see them again. However, as a 15 year old in the audience humbly pointed out – they’re not punk, therefore they have no business being an opener for the Distillers. Wow, what we can learn from the children of today!!!

I wouldn’t have thought to classify The Distillers as punk (as I generally am just not so good at classifying music), but they definitely are. Then Jem schooled me that The Distillers are on the Epitaph label, and therefore inherently punk. Oh. Duh. Alright, so bring on the *punk*rock*please*!

Do you know Brody, the lead singer from the Distillers? Well she’s amazing. Her deep raspy vocals are awesome and she’s hot and plays a mean guitar – sweet!! I was psyched to see her live for the first time and pretty much didn’t take my eyes off her the whole show. Um, except to check out the drummer of course, but then it was right back to Brody!

The show was awesome. We were up front a bit, so we knew we’d have to deal w/ the mosh pit – and moshing there was! These kids go nuts… so we eventually end up on the peripheral (like most and that gaping hole gets bigger and bigger till the 5 moshers left are having to go 10 feet across the floor to get to slam into the other side of it). But it was fine.. and Rick does the cutest thing where he is kinda like my “moshpit bodyguard”. I mean how cute is that? He stands in front of me and watches the pit for oncoming slammers and keeps them off me as much as possible. I mean, I’d like to think I can handle myself in the pit (I haven’t actually participated in one since college probably), but it’s the most endearing thing to have him take care of me. Lets hear it for Love and Rock & Roll, people!

At a couple points it got really hairy & a bunch of people fell down… and of course in loving mosh spirit you always help the person up as fast as possible (one of the things I love about mosh pits!). One girl was near me and when I was down trying to pick her up I got slammed a little by someone else falling into us. Whoa near miss mosh pit accident! I’m totally fine, but it woulda made a good story if it was worse. Remember the Peaches pit incident? It was ugly (but a great story).

We watched the whole show, we watched most of the moshers get tired, we saw Jem & Tania again at the end (who had left the mobbymosh scene for safer ground), and we saw my friend Kristin and her badass Fillmore bouncer boyfriend Dave. Oh & I had 2 Tom Collins. Free! woohoo!!

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Tonite: I think we’re gonna try to hit Gogle Bordello / Full Moon Partisans at Slims. I’ll letcha know how it goes. The weekend is already turning out to be so busy!!

music

arg – yes, I *still* have yet to update my music calendar! jeeshk! I thought I was going to get to it lastnight – and the day before, and last weekend – I just need to do it, but it takes a good hour or so to go through it all, and right now I’ve gotta put clients first.

Aaanyway – I just happen to be taking a peek on news/message boards trying to figure out why the heck the new Fiona Apple isn’t out (!) which if you’re curious, it’s been put on hold by Sony, but now they’ve got it slated for June 22… I can’t wait, so I sure hope they stick to that.

Anyway, while I was searching for that I found this list of when things are gonna be released – as well there’s one on Pitchfork Media.

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I’ve also been looking into eMusic.com – it’s only $9.99/mo for 40 songs – that’s like 3 cd’s a month – AND they have stuff iTunes doesn’t! woohoo!!

CD’s I would download today if I signed up:

The Distillers: Sing Sing Death House (cuz we’re seeing them Thursday night, and I only have Coral Fang)

New Black

The Fuse

OK, back to work.

chat it up

Oooh! I finally installed Adium (a multiple chat client for mac) & it’s awesome! I’ve been using Fire, and I tried Proteus – but this one rules.

On the PC I used Trillian, which I LOVED. Trillian Pro actually is the best, totally worth the money if you’re a PC user… and one feature that it had that I really missed on the mac chat clients I’ve tried, is the history (shows the message history with that person right in the window). And now Adium has that! woohoo

update: check out this screenshot

update #2: settings explanation and history example

It’s SWEEEEEET!!!!